Diary of a Seasoned Life – Is an Auction an Option for Downsizing?

If you have never experienced a live auction, I highly recommend you add that experience to your bucket list. I attended my first auction as a kid when we had calves to sell or buy. I do not remember much about them, since I probably didn’t pay much attention. As a young adult, I started going to antique auctions looking for that great piece to add to my home or collection. I enjoyed learning the process and the thrill of winning a bid on something special for a good price.  There are many different types of auction houses and the type of merchandise they sell can vary. The majority of the auction houses will take anything from antiques, collectibles, art, and household items that a client wishes to sell. The items can be vintage, new, slightly used, or genuine antiques. Some clients may have only a few items to sell and some may have an entire household or container they need to move. The auctioneer will catalog the items and display them at the auction site until the sale. In many cases, it may be weeks or even months before the items actually go under the gavel. If you are in a hurry, this option may not be the best avenue for you to clear out your items.

The auctioneer will charge you a commission for selling your merchandise. This typically ranges from 20-35%. The auction may or may not market any specific items before the sale. The better quality items in the higher end auction houses or unique collectibles in a specialty sale can often see the most pre-sale attention. The more interest the auction house can stir will most likely result in more people bidding, which in most cases, drives up the pricing and the auction house’s commission.

My attendance at auctions has been extremely limited the last 20 years due to a lack of desire to keep acquiring more things. My antique appraisal class from Asheford Institute assigned a field trip to go out and attend an antique auction and visit some of the local antique stores or malls. I went to several in the last week. What I learned is that the vast majority of what people are selling as “antiques” or not anything but vintage pieces or items that have passed their day. There is so much stuff out there for sale, it will blow your mind. These items will some day be antique and even may be collectible now, but 80% is just someone else’s junk. Much of the furniture out there that is becoming antique is the Victorian and Art Deco period. I saw some beautiful pieces, but most of them were apparently not selling. Prices in most places were slashed to 50% or more off.

The one place that did seem to be selling their pieces was actually taking these old vintage furniture pieces and modifying them in ways that make them more appealing to the younger shopper. The craze right now seems to be refinishing furniture and accessories in chalk paint to make them more rustic or shabby chic. I have to wonder how much of this has been influenced by Joanna Gaines from Waco. She has this “modern meets rustic” country decor that she demonstrates on the HGTV show, “Fixer Upper”.

The auction was even more astonishing in the lack of interest in furniture and most items that were up for sale that night. The auction house had reservation signs on most of the seats, so it appeared the place would be packed. It was not. Most of the seats were empty. There were some deals to be had, if you were looking for the type of items on the block that night. I previewed the items the day before and picked out what I thought were some of the nicer pieces. My assignment was to do my own assessment of the items and write down what I thought was the value. When the items actually sold, I could compare how accurate or not my appraisals were.

I was pretty dead on with what items I thought were the best quality and desirable. Even with that said, the prices were very low. As a buyer, that is great for profit potential. As a seller, that was bad news. The most expensive piece of furniture was actually a pair of early Victorian chairs from the 19th Century. They sold for $250 each. One very important thing that I noticed was the lack of proper identification and presentation of some of the items. I noticed on preview day, three serigraphs that were quite large in size and framed by an artist named Lillian Shao. Since they were a style that appeals to me, I did some research on them and found that several of her pieces were being sold online and in art galleries for $600 (unsigned smaller prints) to over $2000 for signed prints. These prints were custom framed and more than 50″ tall. When the auctioneer had them on the block, he called them “really nice Erte’s” and told a brief story that a lady in Dallas had brought them in to sell at auction in addition to “some others in the back for a future sale”. He mentioned that “she paid a lot of money for them”. Two of them sold for about $495 each and one of them for about $600. I am quite sure that “lady in Dallas” was regretting her decision to sell them at auction (or at least this auction).

Not all auctions will yield such disappointing results, nor is it likely that most of your cherished belongings are going to create a bidding war and sell for above appraisal. Just because you paid $1200 for that sofa 20 years ago, you cannot expect that you can sell it for that now and certainly not more. It is even hard to get charities to take furniture that you want to give them in today’s market.

Be realistic about what you have and whether it is something that is still desirable by the public. Is it something that is now considered a vintage collectible or true antique? Can it be modified to be more appealing to a buyer? Are you willing to take time to find the right buyer? All of these factors will play a big role in its true value today.

P.S. Be sure and check out some of the collectibles for sale on my consignment website, www.collectiblesclearinghouse.com .

Diary of a Seasoned Life – Are You Ready When Life Comes Knocking?

Are You Ready for a Life Event? What is a Life Event?
  • Marriage
  • Divorce
  • Children Arriving
  • Children Leaving
  • Illness
  • Disability
  • Loss of Income
  • Economic Downturn
  • Death

Combing two households later in life happens more than you think. Here are a couple of facts:

  1. 70% of people who get a divorce will wind up getting married once again at some point in their life
  2. Census Bureau estimates that 10 times as many widowers as widows over 65 remarry, though there are fewer older men than older women.

Splitting up a household statistics:

  1. 40 to 50 percent of married couples in the United States divorce
  2. 60 percent of all second marriages fail

Not good news for those 70% who went down the aisle a second time!

Your kids are becoming adults and moving out, so now what?

  1. 36% of Boomers will move or plan to move when they become Empty Nesters
  2. 44% of Boomers who moved or will consider moving from their old Empty Nest cite wanting a smaller house and one that requires less maintenance

Believe those kids that graduated from school and left the nest are on their own? What about your parent? Look at this:

  1.  26% of adult children move back home
  2.  40% of Boomers anticipate that their adult children will move back in  with them.
  3.  30% anticipate that their parents will move in with them

Changes in our own or a loved one’s health can occur at any time. Illness, Disability, or Death are definitely important events one should properly prepare to handle:

  1. 1 in 1.7 people will experience a traumatic event in their life
  2. 70 percent of people over age 65 need some long-term care
  3. 37 million Americans are classified disabled
  4. 50% of these disabled Americans are 18-64 years old
  5. 1 in 4 people become disabled before retirement
  6. 1 in 265 people die of an heart attack every  year
  7. 1 in 1.5 adults do not have a living will
  8. 1 in 135 people will die within a year

All of these events in addition to forced early retirement, layoffs, and economic downturns can lead to financials stresses and loss of income. Take a look at these statistics:

  1. 42% were forced into retirement because of health problems
  2. 4% were forced into retirement due to company downsizing and company closures
  3. 18% were forced into retirement to care for a sick spouse
  4. 13% were forced into retirement due to an outdated skill set
  5. 22% were forced into retirement for other reasons
  6. Only 64% of private-sector workers have any formal retirement plan, and fewer than half sign up for one
  7. The U. S. has experienced 33  recessions in its history. That means that one occurs about every 5 years.
  8. American household wealth is $7.7 trillion less than it was before the last recession

Now I know you are saying, “You have sufficiently stressed me out and I hope you have some solutions for all of this!” All of these statistics are why I started this blog and my company, Seasoned Life Transitions. I want to educate people about what they can do to prepare for these life events and help them find the resources needed to prepare in advance, so that when life comes knocking, you are less stressed and can more easily navigate through the tough patch. To start with, you need the following:

  • Proper Insurance
  • Will, Living Will, or Living Trust
  • Power of Attorney
  • Adequate Savings
  • Income Sources
  • Future Care Wishes
  • Appropriate Living Accommodations
  • Allocation of Personal Possessions
  • Designate a Primary Caregiver

I am in the process of developing a network of professionals in the area that have expertise in all of these areas. My plan is to put together a seminar for clients and potential clients of all of these professionals to come and get valuable coaching and education in one place at one time to help people start the process. Let me know what you think and if you are interested in attending one of these seminars or being a part of the network.

Diary of A Seasoned Life – Is Retirement For Me?

Many seasoned life people struggle with the decision of how long to remain working. Is retirement for me? Retirement used to be the ultimate goal in a person’s life. You have put in your years of hard work and now it is time to rest, play, and travel. There may also be other factors that lead a person to retire including illness, disability, spouse or other family member illness, or just plain old burn out.

In any case, retirement should be planned and thought out. The number one thing to do before deciding is to evaluate your financial situation and determine whether you can afford to retire. This will probably mean meeting with your accountant and financial advisor. If you don’t have either of those, I highly suggest you seek one out. These professionals can review your current income, savings, retirement savings, expenses, and future expenses versus income to determine if you can afford to retire or if you still have more preparation to do.

Another important thing to evaluate is your lifestyle. Does your travel plans, hobbies, and current living situation match with the amount of income you will have after you retire? Will retiring mean sacrifices? Travelling around the world and supporting expensive hobbies costs money and not everyone has set aside enough savings to cover all this on top of every day living expenses, health insurance, taxes, and children’s college education.

Let’s say you can afford to retire and travel a few times a year. What about the rest of the time? Especially if you had a career that was high level or involved being social with others, you may find life after retirement boring and meaningless. Unless you keep yourself busy socially or stay active in your community through clubs or volunteering, continuing to work may be important in order to feel like you have a purpose in life. Determining whether this will apply to you will require some self evaluation and awareness.

I have spent 34 years of my life in a career that involved interacting with people on a daily basis. I always had goals, deadlines, quotas, and expectations to strive towards. I am also a person who enjoys a routine and structure. I do not see myself retiring. Money has always been a motivator for me. Not earning an income is something that makes me extremely uncomfortable. I also have a high energy level and do not think of myself as unable to do physical things. Staying still for very long is hard for me. I still feel like I have things to accomplish and to offer, so that is why I do not see retirement for me any time soon.

What about you? Do you know if you are ready or soon will be?